Never leave a true relationship for few faults. Noone is perfect. Noone is correct. Love always weighs more than perfection.
These lines reveal the essence of relationships. Man is a social animal. We have been living in groups since primitive age. We strive to make our dear ones happy by our acts. This is the core of relationships.
Relationships are based on love,acceptance, respect and understanding. With the relationships, some chapters are sad, some are happy and some are exciting. But if you don't turn the page,you will never know what the next page holds.
Unconditional love and acceptance is the foundation of relationships. Accept the things to which love binds you, love the people whom fate brings you together, but do so with all your heart. Our relationship evolves through acceptance. Instead of expecting ,we should accept. We can spendĺĺ a lifetime seeking for the person who entirely matches our choice. Never focus on the faults in order to build a healthy relationship. We are all unique with different mindsets. Your definition of right may not match other's perception. Adjustment is the key to happy relations.
Relations are nothing but the exchange of energy between two people. It is entirely dependent on how you think about the person irrespective of how nicely you talk and behave with that person. This is very subtle, but this holds good in every relationships.
Human relations are never ever absolute. They are variable and take a lot of skill and attention to maintain a relationship. Hence, it will grow or end depending upon the energy and attention you give to that relationship.
Sometimes you are provoked by negative comments. At that time , don't react at once. If you take a moment and respond in a calm, healthy and real way, then you are in control. Don't allow anyone overpower you or invoke a reaction from you. Respond instead of reacting. No matter how educated or talented you are, how you treat others tells all. Life is too short to keep differences. Sort out if you can, else bless them and move on.
> When we have sound relationship with our own self, our relationship with others becomes happier and love flows naturally.
> Release the past hurt and grudges.
> Accept that everyone has their own perception.
> Noone is responsible for what we feel. It is absolutely our choice.
Indic philosophy better explains this in one phrase "Vasudeva Kutumbhakam", which means universal brotherhood.