Friday, 20 March 2020

Self-Discipline is Self-Love

The person who  masters himself  through  self control and discipline is truly undefeatable.              
                        Gautam Buddha 
Self-discipline begins with the mastery of your thoughts. If you can not control  what you think, you can not control what you do. It means that you forego all your current pleasures for the exchange of long term  self-respect. You can  not win the  war against  the world  unless you  win the  war against yourself. If you  want to be happy, you have to discipline your behaviour. It is the road to sustain happiness. Your  happiness is your responsibility. 

Self-discipline is the strongest form of self-love. It is loving yourself enough to give your self all that you have  ever wanted. It bridges the gap between goals and accomplishments. So each day you must choose between the pain of discipline or the pain of regret. The undisciplined are the slaves of moods, appetites and passions. 

In Bhagwad Gita, Shree Krishna says, "The mind is a fickle. It won't obey you. Everytime it  misbehaves, use your discretionary intellect to bring it back  to  equanimity. Regular  practice  will help in disciplining the mind". There is nothing so disobedient as an undisciplined mind and nothing obedient as a disciplined mind. Be stronger than your  excuses. Skills are developed by hours of hard work  and perseverance. You get  what you  work for  and not what you wish for. Your addiction for growth should be stronger than your comfort. 

All successful people in the world have discipline in  their routines. People  like Bill Gates, Steve jobs and many others have benefited this world by  their constant efforts and discipline  in their lives. If you  love yourself  you  would be consistently  motivated to sustain  discipline  in your life and make yourself  deserving to get the  unlimited reserves of abundance in your life. Weak minds leads to  weak actions 
A strong and a disciplined  mind can achieve miracles. If you  don't  go  after  what you  want, you will never have it.

Basic  discipline rules:
• set the schedule for the next day before  sleeping. 
• Wake up  on time and make your bed.
• Sit in silence  for  at least 10 to 15 minutes
• Read or listen to something  powerful. 
• Eat healthy  foods. 
• Follow  through your  plans.
• To create  a new  habit, follow 21\90 rule. It takes  21 days to  create  a  new habit  and 90 days to  create a  lifestyle. 

Disciplining  means to push your self to  do what is needed to be done, even if it is painful. Once incorporated in  the lifestyle, a disciplined  person  reaps the  fruits of his actions and  lives a healthy and a happy life. In the  process , a disciplined person  evolves to  be a  better  human being with greater  willpower and self esteem.